Believe yourself. This is training for leader.
The uncertainty it is not such terrible defect. Well, you will think, has begun to doubt and has not gone on appointment to the girl or has cancelled a business meeting. The world from it has not failed. The girl, certainly, has taken offence, partners have not wanted more to have with you affairs. Well also what? And who knows, maybe, this girl - your destiny, and this business meeting would turn a wheel of fate in your advantage (to your credit)? You do not know it, because you did not use the chance because of banal uncertainty.
And if we shall count up, how many losses occur in life because of shyness and indecision, I assure you - hair on end will rise. Energy, money, people - all this is devoured with ruthless fire of your doubts. On the ashes there are only shadows of memoirs on non-realized dreams. But you can change the life and receive from it everything, that it is necessary to you under the right: good friends, work, the money, the favourite wife, health. for this purpose it is necessary to become self-assured the person. It in your hands. Only it is necessary to read and to work those tasks which in it are resulted. You see from what the self-confident is born? It is born from knowledge. Knowledge of and the opportunities. You are sure, because you know. It is born from understanding. Understanding of that occurs around and how to operate in the given concrete situation. You are sure, because you understand. That's all! It is the simple formula.
To know itself and to understand a situation. The self-confident of is born from knowledge of and understanding of a situation. it Is the theory and what turns out in practice? To learn itself it is very difficult. The fear prevents this. The fear to be exposed: and suddenly they learn, what I not such, how all? Fear unknown: And suddenly in me there is something such... Such... Such., that I am direct also itself I do not know. But I assure you, all these fears are quite surmountable, and you even can not imagine, as far as is more easy breathed without them. To understand a situation in which you are - for the majority of people too very much a complicated problem. There is no such high school in which in this would train. Some gifted copies intuitively exist in this world, operating a situation and pulling for all destinies.
I offer you to remove such skills on a conscious level and to learn to lay confidently a rate of the life. such psychological structure, as educability is by nature given to us. And let's use it to the full extent. It is given to you, as is given to everyone. The main thing - to choose the necessary technique. I offer a technique which approaches all. It's universality already has recommended itself: and youngster, both old men, and students, and managers, - everyone find confidence, everyone who feels internal discomfort and wants to study.
Certainly if you are absolutely self-assured, you have no need to read this. Only remember, that the self-confident person - is blind, self-assured the person - sees essence of things. Who knows and understands. So, we have understood, to what we should aspire: to knowledge of and to understanding of a situation. But in what a problem.
Anybody will not make with you what you should do. I can not wave a magic wand and transform you in self-assured the person. But I can show a direct way to confidence which have passed up to you others. I do not gather here before you to conjure. That you learn from the book, for certain will work, and is rather effective. So, that you can receive from this book: to learn yourself of the present; confidently to learn to feel itself in a unfamiliar situation; confidently to conduct conversation; confidently to communicate; confidently to act on before an audience; to consult with shyness, anger and anxiety; confidently to risk. you will open for yourselves new power opportunities. The uncertain person spends energy for anxiety, anger, fear and loses the forces which are necessary for achievement of the purpose. You learn to use this energy in " the peace purposes ". You at all do not represent, as far as your life becomes easier and more cheerful! Reject doubts, and forward to confidence which will fill your muscles with energy and your heart - pleasure of life.
You are here together with me, on this page, you have taken the first step to finding self-confident. I have described all simply, clearly and have chosen the most effective exercises. Someone will tell: " it Is nonsense, all is too simple ". But, anyway, this "nonsense" works. Even if you will read the unique chapter, will acquire only that rule which contains in it, and will put before yourselves only that problem which is offered in this chapter, you not only will achieve some results - your feeling of confidence considerably grow tall. 
So from what uncertainty is born? " And that will be, if... " - We ask. The fear before unknown also is born. To become sure, it is necessary to place in the service this fear of itself on - to make the future maximum predicted, that is to consider all probable opportunities of turn of events in this or that side. You see when we know, that can take place, even if it will be not the most pleasant incident, to us it is not so terrible. Also do not overlook: we are capable to change ourselves. We choose ourselves every minute, hourly. " As it so? " - You ask. It is Very simply. 
For example, your familiar has treated you coffee which she has prepared in a new coffee maker, awfully fashionable and very expensive. Prepared on French coffee has liked you, it has seemed and is more fragrant and more gentle usual "expressio". For the next day you have gone to shop and have bought to yourselves precisely same coffee maker and now each morning enjoy taste magnificent mocco, and feel like very modern and advanced, just as yours girlfriend. But you could arrive and on the contrary: to not buy any new coffee makers, and to decide, that your way of preparation of coffee is orientally much better than all these modern technologies, which each day as mushrooms, grow. And each morning you make in the old deserved coffee makers a divine drink and you are pleased to what practical both clever. And choice for you. What you want to become: advanced or practical?
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